When fire hits, it spreads. Sometimes it’s what you need to get back to where you need to be. Life continues on without looking back, but as a human being we have to. Otherwise where can we go? If we can’t understand what we did, review what we’ve done, than there is no reason to go forward. There’s nothing learned and so everything repeats. It’s procrastination and it holds us close in a never ending cycle of repression and indignity. Knowing it, befriending our mistakes and our successes and failures, is accepting that things can and should always be changing. Otherwise we are doing something wrong. And that, is not a conclusion anyone should surrender to.